Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Humanist Officiant?
A Humanist Officiant is authorized by the Province of Ontario, under the Marriage act, to legally perform secular wedding ceremonies (as well as funerals and more) having undergone training and credentialing by Humanist Canada. The process with Humanist Canada includes background checks, character references, interviews, and a long training process. We are qualified based on our education, life experience, a commitment to Humanist principles, ability to communicate clearly, as well as our writing and public speaking skills.
In Ontario you can be married by a Judge or Justice of the Peace, a city clerk employee who is able to conduct city hall nupitals, or a member of the clergy. As Humanist Officiants, we are considered non-religious clergy.
Can a friend or family member marry me?
In Ontario, unless the family member or friend is legally authorized (Judge, Justice of the Peace, City Clerk employee who conducts city hall nuptials or a member of the clergy), they can NOT marry you. However, Humanist Officiants can work with you to incorporate a family member or friend to create a joint service. The legal aspects must be done by someone registered by the province, but the some of the service can be led by a loved one.
Where can I find more information about getting married?
Visit the Service Ontario website.
Do I need a Marriage License?
I cannot perform your marriage ceremony without your marriage license. A valid marriage license can be obtained through your local City Hall or Municipal Office. Once issued, the Marriage Licence is valid for three months. You can download the application here.
How long is a wedding ceremony?
Ceremony length really depends on personal preference but generally run somewhere between 20 to 30 minutes.
How do we obtain proof that our marriage has been registered?
There is no automatic notification of your marriage registration. To have proof that the Province of Ontario has registered your marriage, you can order a Marriage Certificate online 6-8 weeks after your wedding date. A Marriage Certificate is a legal record of your marriage, it’s a document that’s good to have on file… you never know when you might need it.
What does a Humanist Officiant funeral or memorial service look like?
As with all Humanist guided ceremonies, a Humanist funeral or memorial is non-religious. It can be as elaborate as you’d like or kept simple but always built with your personal wishes in mind. We acknowledge the profound sadness of goodbyes, while celebrating the beauty of life, connection, and legacy.
How can I find out more about Humanism?
A great start is to visit the Humanist Canada website where you can find resources and recommended reading, among other information.